...... YOUR TAKE ON INHERITING OTHER PEOPLE'S ENEMIES

 


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Now let's get to our topic for today but before that..... I'm going to tell you guys a story and just before I go ahead with the story, you guys will have to promise that you won't laugh at me because this time around I fall una hand shaa. (If u laugh, just get ready to see me in your dream πŸ˜’πŸ€£)


Okay, I found myself in the middle of a friend and her friend's fight (as in two fantas with no opener)

This friend of mine is very close to me, In fact she is the one with whom I am well pleased 🀣,  I can literally do anything for this person so far as it's something within my power, anything that bothers her bothers me too, I go all out for her, I pray for her and anytime she is in a bad mood, I kinda feel bad and woe betide you if you are her problem, Nah only the fear of the Lord go make me listen to your own side of the story OR better still If you are actually close to me too (just this two things).

Fast forward to the main gist, so it happened to be that she was having issues with someone who is also a friend and she told me about it. Sharp sharp! your girl don start to dey vex and I started hating on the friend without hearing the friend out.

Well to cut the long story short, one thing led to the other and I found out that in my absence that this two were actually friends if not best friends, while I was busy thinking that they were enemies and they have been chilling behind my back and then after chilling, she will come back to me to still paint the friend as a bad person a.k.a the problem. To me I don't know what to call that because why would she do that? Am I the fool or Am I the one that actually knows the truth about how she really feel about this person. Everthing she told me, Is it true or is she just making them up? Who am I going to believe at this point? Am I actually hating the wrong person.

The person that I am inheriting her enemy, does the person really give a damn about my peace of mind because to be honest I was really worried about her own peace of mind based on the complaints I got. These were the questions that I had going through my mind... but then again What do I know?🀷🏽‍♀️

To think that the thought of the so called friend always annoyed me, I mean why do you have to stress my friend for God sake and anytime that my friend starts complaining I am always very angry and just felt like confronting the friend in question(because Odogwu does not like what she hate) but because I was told not to, what can I do🀷🏽‍♀️?

At the end of the day, i figured out that nah me come be the fool las las. At that point I just had to sing

I can't believe that am a fool again
.......... how was I to know, you never told me........

Ehe nau... because Omo hmm!


Anyways thank God I realized my foolishness and left the equation.

Now to you my dearly beloved readers, asides from my own experience/story, I know that there are some other stories that are very different from mine and sometimes some enemies deserve to be inherited shaaπŸ™ƒπŸ˜‚ but then again for me I feel like there is no need inheriting anyone's enemy. Always try to hear the both parties out if you can and allow God to direct you on how to handle the situation.

With that being said I will still love to hear from you fam and listen to what you have to say, so tell me 

What is your take on inheriting other people's enemies?


Let me know in the comment section guys.

I remain your girl Zenny and I am always in the comment section waiting for y'allπŸ˜‰

Love youπŸ₯°❤


Comments

  1. .... And please I would also like to know..
    What will you do if you find yourself in my situation?

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  2. Omo...
    Na person wey never chichumchin dey inherit enemies ooo.
    We all have our stories sha..
    The saying goes, "the enemy of my enemy is my friend... The friend of my enemy is my enemy, the friend of my friend is my friend" but tbvh, the equation no dey balance if you no Sabi wetin sup.
    The world has changed and we should change with it.
    Nice one Zee

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    1. Thank you so much Ragnar... at the end of the day all we have to do is to be wiseπŸ€—

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  3. I really agree with you because your friend's enemy might end up being your helper or destiny changer, just imagine if you have gone to inherit enemy means road block o. And one can't always be an angel in all story as long as it concerns we human, your own angel maybe someone's nightmare or demon. So if someone is an angel to you, you better follow that person like that but be careful while doing that.

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  4. I know right... Thank you guys for your comments. I believe we keep learning everyday. πŸ€—❤

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