How to deal with Unspoken Rules in a relationship
Unspoken rules are behavioral constraints imposed in organizations or societies that are not voiced or written down.
Today ,I would like to talk about Unspoken rules in a relationship. You know the saying "Do not put all your eggs in one basket" yeah so I have been meaning to ask if I don't put all my eggs in one basket, where do I put some of them please?
Okay, so it's assumed that when you have a male friend who you think is actually very close to you, technically you cannot call that a relationship because he hasn't asked you out yet. So until he ask you on a few dates and then tells you exclusively that you guys are in a relationship that is when you can boldly say that you are seeing someone.
Now my question is what if they don't do that? Do you have to keep waiting for them to ask you out or do you move on to the next available flight (ie dating someone else)
Do send in your opinion in the comment section, while I'm right here waiting. Am still your girl Zee, thank u so much for stopping by, I love y'all 😘❤
I can ask him to clarify what actually we are. With his response to the question I should be able to know my next step.
ReplyDeleteOookkk... that's a good one..Thank u so much for stopping by 😘❤
DeleteFrom the word "ship", it has more than one person on board cos one will tail the mainsail and the other will navigate the ship... that's by the way... every "ship", be it friendship, relationship, situaionship and the likes must be clearly defined. If it's friendship, it has to be said from the onset and if it wants to progress along the way, it would but having the mind of friends turning into lovers or something might actually really throw everything off balance unless both parties are mutual to the feelings.. that's what happens majorly around but regardless of everything, it must be defined. And it goes both ways sha... just saying... open to corrections.
ReplyDeleteMmmmh🤔... Ok,matters arising... we will definitely come back to this.. all the same, thank you so much for stopping by 😘❤
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ReplyDeleteThis one is not hard for me at all. I don't believe the guy should make all the decisions in a relationship, personally I feel it gives them too much power, besides a relationship is a two way thing what's my point and why am I talking a lot. My advice for anyone in this relationship is to ask the guy "oga what is this we are doing" if he cant answer it's because the relationship have no destination, if you want to continue great if not abeg oh next flight to Dubai to shake your arse on a yacht if that's what you want. Thank you🧚🏽♀️
😂😂🤣.... Oh wow. am sure the person is reading. Thank you so much for your comment 🙏❤
DeleteBesides if you dont ask ya honestly wasting your time
ReplyDeleteSo besties take your phone and text him the question if ya shy ti say it in person
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DeletePersonally it's unwise to be absolutely faithful to someone you don't have intention to get married to.
ReplyDeleteIn Regular boyfriend and girlfriend relationships don't hesitate to cheat nor ask other people out even while still being in a relationship.
Cuz the heartbreak would hit differently if you don't and they do.
Based on my personal experience
🙊🙊.. Am so sorry.... Thank you so much for sharing 🤗❤
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