The ONE mystery of life that has been on my mind

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So I was wondering, how can a girl get all that she wants, when I say all that she wants, I mean all she wants...things like, she is strong, she has peace and joy, she's independent, a very good job and then a very  fat bank account balance smiling at her, you know what I mean😉,and to crown it all, she is now in a relationship with a great guy.

I mean,you may think you are very ok, after all you are hardworking, well mannered, homely, just managing the little you've got, also in the midst of good conversation and generally a with a good catch and then suddenly you meet an old friend whom you know that you are way better than both in character, hard work and way too principled and then* boom* it happened to be that he/she has almost everything that you have been toiling day and night to have. 

This is the point when you will start asking yourself questions like, "am I ok? Is there something wrong with me? Where was I when my mates were achieving all this? I thought I was busy... yeah i was very busy🤔

Why is my own hustle not paying so fast?

These are just the questions that will be going on in your mind. 

After this, you may now decide to overlook it and keep moving on, besides all hands are not equal, i will get there at my own time, let me move on to the next thing and see what I can achieve. My dear,  that is when the head of them all will come tormenting you, do you who that is? Mr Marriage😣. For people in my category which is 'true love' 😘 we don't  want to rush into marriage instead we want to experience  a true love relationship that leads to marriage. You know that kind of love that have you both in your 60s still eating from the same place  and then laughing at each other’s jokes, have you gazing at each other’s eyes like you are just meeting for the first time, the kind of love that I think doesn’t exist anymore especially in this our generation. That is what we are looking for, so we are taking our time

Ahaaaaaa, so now that you have decided to take your time, this is the time when you will start getting wedding invitations or better still  if you don't get invites, you get to meet the ones who are already married and then they will start telling you how marriage is so good(although some will tell you the truth about it while some will try to make it seem so rosy).  They will tell you how they are married with kids and how their husband is so loving and caring..... many more.

Kaaaiiiiiiiii, at this point  it feels like the universe is definitely playing a fast one on you, because in your mind you would be like " I thought I was a lot more principled, hardworking, dedicated, disciplined and many more unlike this ones" but meanwhile you didn't know that things are not done that way.

Don’t get it twisted, am not jealous, beefing or underrating anyone but seriously life is so mysterious,  just when you thought you are on the right track, it will just show the other side of life.  LIFE INDEED IS A MYSTERY! 

But In order words, we will take it one step at a time, so far as we has God, we are gonna get there😄once its our time, we will shine, at the end of the day we all will alright. Let's move on to the next level🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️😉😘

 

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